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Penpalling

Write to a stranger for years, with weeks between each reply

Pick someone on a matching site, send a first letter, then wait: weeks each way is normal, and the slowness is the texture of the thing, which is why you write far more carefully than you would type. Postage and paper are the only costs. The part to accept is that people stop replying, and correspondences lasting years are the exception.

First stepChoose someone on a penpal matching site, post them a one-page handwritten letter, and wait for the reply.

Barriers

Cost to start
Under $50
Going deep → $50–300
Alone or with people
Anyone will do
Effort
Sitting
Without a teacher?
Self-taught
One session takes
Under 30 min
Where
At home
Why people take it up
Being with people